Ok not sure if this is an aibu or a what would you do style post but here goes. Backstory: I worked for a woman teaching various dance classes at her dance school for ages 18 months to 18 for around 2 years I ended up leaving to cocentrate on my last few months of my dance degree. Fast forward to now I have my dance degree I have a Monday to Friday 9-5 job now and am 27 weeks pregnant, the lady I worked for was in a bit of a pickle in November time and was severely short staffed so in order for her to not loose money I offered to teach the odd class here and there which worked well when I was still able to run around like a loon after a class of 25 children teaching them to dance whilst demonstrating the moves fully myself. It's now January and I'm having a few problems with my pregnancy and have been told aside from my day job to take it easy and cut down on the fitness classes etc so I am, now i told her all this explained I'd had a few scares in and out of maternity assesment unit with baby etc so she's asked me today to cover a shift this Saturday morning (2 days from now) this would be a three hour shift 9am - 12pm paid at minimum wage (the rubbish pay was partly why I left this job also as minimum wage for what you do as a dance teacher/instructor with this age range and volume of pupils in my opinion is nowhere near enough!) anyway it would cost me £8.00 to get to work and back so after petrol and a one hour commute for three hours of solid teaching I would make around £12.00... To me this isn't enough to be financially viable for me and i think of rather spend the morning pottering about doing bits to the little ones nursery. Am I being unreasonable to say no under these circumstances when it was me that offered the odd help back in November when I was feeling brighter and more with it?! And what would you do/say if you think saying no is the right thing as I don't want to offend this lady as she's slightly highly strung so can't be bothered with offending her and getting a snotty reply (Also now seriously hoping this lady isn't a secret mumsnetter as I've seriously outed myself if so!) apologies for spelling mistakes/auto correct mistake my IPhone has a mind of its own! If you don't understand something just ask I've rush typed this on a coffee break to get it all out whilst its on my mind or baby brain will jumble it by 5pm haha!
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