Dd is 13mo and sleeps in our bed every night. She goes to sleep in her cot in her room for a couple of hours from 7pm, giving me a chance to have dinner/bath/tidy up and chat to dh. Then she wakes about 930 and wants to sleep cuddling in our bed.
For a while we tried lots of techniques to keep her in the cot longer, all resulted in her crying hysterically and sometimes making herself sick (we tried laying next to cot,rocking,singing,total darkness and even a few minutes of CIO which I won't ever do again :( .
Anyway, dh and I have come to the conclusion that dd is better off in our bed, she sleeps well, has a bf a couple of times which I virtually sleep through and we all get a good night sleep.
When I get asked about sleep by hv/mil/fil/dm/dbro and any other person who is nosey interested they all sigh, tell me about rod for my back or tell me they wouldn't put up with it. Tbh I'm quite fed up of all the negative comments and I do enjoy cosleeping - last night dd smiled and cuddled and looked at me with such happiness and love it brought a tear to my eye.
Aibu to actually enjoy cosleeping and be fed up of people making me feel like I'm a bad parent for doing it? I don't care how other people sleep and don't see why I should lie to please the critics...
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KoalaTale · 15/01/2013 12:29
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