SD lives in a different country. She's 18 and wants to come visit with her new boyfriend.
DH started a new job before Christmas and as such has no holiday time to take.
SD emailed last week to say she wanted to come from Saturday to Thursday. DH would be here on the Saturday and Sunday and then in work until 7.30pm for the rest of her stay.
Not only that. I have the school run for two dc at different times. So I won't be around for parts of the day and she can't come with me as there is one spare seat and two of them.
Last week we talked about it and decided that DH would explain the situation and ask her to come from Friday to Sunday (we are paying for flights).
Lo and behold she texts today saying she's booked time off from the Saturday to Thursday because that fucking arsehole never bothered emailing her.
Wtf do I do now?! I have 3 dc under 6 and I don't know what I'm going to do with them alone all week! If it was just SD I wouldn't care. I've often had her when DH had to work.
If this were a one off, fair enough. But he never bothers to phone, text, Facebook her. It's always me. In almost 10 years I've organised all her presents even coordinating with her mum on split gifts even though her mum despises me because she thinks I've come between them!
This is down to DH's behaviour. Nothing to do with me. He's just a lazy bastard when it comes to SD!
I'm so angry. I'll have to fix this and don't know how!
AIBU?
I could fucking kill him!
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