First AIBU, so please be gentle, but I genuinely interested in who IBU here.
I am hosting NYE dinner for 7 of us, after the original hosts dropped out yesterday having come down with flu. The original plan, which we are sticking to, is that everyone brings something. One friend is bringing soup, another fish, someone else dessert (probably not the Bailey's thing - dang and blast it!), I'm doing side dishes and salads, etc, etc. All very nice and friendly. One friend said he would bring meat - steaks, bits of chicken. Lovely! Spoke to him last night and it appears that he is seriously considering turning up with raw meat and expecting me to cook it. AIBU in thinking that this is not on?
I'm asking people for 8. DD is 2 and the time between her bedtime (7.30) and 8 will be spent clearing the flat up and trying to make myself presentable. So even if he turned up early, I still don't think it is really on. I don't want the extra mess and work of now having to cook the main course as well. I don't want to be stuck in the kitchen/running backwards and forwards whilst everyone else is relaxing and having a nice time. And I don't trust him enough to be left alone in my kitchen to do the cooking (he has form for breaking things and/or making a complete mess).
Part of my hesitancy about whether I am BU is that my reactions are very much coloured by his previous history, which is coming up with damn fool ideas that are clearly bonkers and highly inconvenient to other people.
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AIBU?
To think that the meat course brought tonight should already be cooked?
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cardamomginger · 31/12/2012 07:43
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