Ds7 has a dx of ASD &ADHD. He attends a special school. (Trying to explain his level of need). He has1to 1 support to manage in school. There are 5 children in his class.
I recieve 6 hours a week restpite from social services. The problem is the Carer. She's great with ds but very unreliable in respect of time keeping. She regulary changes the days, keeps ds out longer then we arranged or has even brought him home early without calling me first.
If i complain about her, there isn't a replacement. Ds has to go back on the waiting list for a new Carer. The quality of the other carers leave a lot to be desired! I've met many at the clubs/local events organised by NAS & other charities.
She's my only form of practical support. I have 2 other dc. She's changed the plans for today...again. Ds was still awake at 1 am&has been up since 6am. His behaviour always deteriorates in the holidays so is very challenging,eating&sleeping become very difficult.
Im feeling a bit desperate now. Its the fact i got through yesterday by thinking of the break i would get today now Im expecting her at11am but don't know how long she will have ds for,she's not replying to my texts or answering phone.
AIBU for feeling demented&feeling totally frustrated by ds Carer? or should i just be thankful i get any help at all &shut up& put up!?
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Shellywelly1973 · 28/12/2012 09:49
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