Our DD3 has been home from uni for 4 days.
She is the youngest and has always been spoilt, both of our faults!
She is the laziest and most untidy of our three. The other two now have there own places.
Since she has been home I have been in a bad mood because she has made the house a bombsite and I have constantly been nagging her to tidy up.
She has since sunday;-
left her dirty clothes on the bathroom floor,touching the linen basket!!
Left breakfast, lunch plates and half drunk tea cups in the lounge
put her washing in the machine, turned it on but left it in there.
She also asked me to not put up the xmas tree as it was her "job", I have had it up ready over two weeks with lights on and she has still not dressed it.
She spends allday with a throw over her on the settee watching American drivel on tv.
So this morning Dh marches up to me and tells me off for not making her feel welcome in her own home! He tells me "your just like your mother"
My Mother was a physco bitch that physically and emotionly abused me! So I am very very upset at that remark.
He has since tidied up after her and now neither of them are talking to me. In fact he said right now he would like to be anywhere but here with me.
We have a 99% successful marriage but when we argue, rarely, it is always a major blow up.
Funnily enough it used to about him taking his mothers side over mine but recently since she died him taking DD3 side.
If I had somewhere to go I think I would just leave them to it together.
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to have had a massive row with DH for "enabling" DH lazy ways?
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fatnfrumpy · 19/12/2012 20:44
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