Ill cut an extremely long story short and basically say that my oh ex wife moved their daughter 250 miles away from us approx 1 year ago. This was done in secret and my oh would never have agreed to it as was having regular (3 nights per week as per court order) contact.
At first as step daughters mum refused to travel so my oh paid for flights so his daughter could spend school holidays with us however this became too expensive on top of the CSA.
She then agreed that she would meet halfway by car so that the travelling was shared. This made an 8 hour round trip be 4hours for my oh and much more reasonable.
She doesnt have any other kids (we do) and has a car. She gets her maintenance money every month. OH daughter desperately wants to see her dad but she is making is so difficult by refusing to travel?
Are we being unreasonable to expect her to do this? She thinks it oh's responsibility and from what i can see i think the courts would agree as it says non resident parent should collect the child.
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mrsmamma · 17/12/2012 15:18
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