My son is 13 and is very sensitive. He lacks confidence and although he gets on well with people, he's usually a follower. He's dyslexic but hasn't seem to ask for help at school hence being in the bottom sets which means not only he's not challenged academically, he receives no homework or tasks. He's good with music and Minecraft but he doensn't want to pick up a book and read, and that is our daily battle. He says he can read ok and he does - quite fast in fact - but hates it because ' its boring..'. We also have a really bright 5 year old but with my new husband - and my husband is obviously very proud of his son which has an impact on DS. DS is a wonderful personality , always says yes and ready to please but when it comes to homework or building up a spine he's useless. How can I change myself and my perception so I can help him. 99% am angry at him for being so passive and laid back, am I being a horrible mother? I lay awake at night hating myself and knowing my approach is wrong, but i have said horrible things to him about not delivering at school and what will happen to his life if he doesn't try hard enough.
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Getting so frustrated with my oversensitive, dyslexic DS
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GOM · 10/12/2012 06:05
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