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To think Senco should be helping my child.

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Whistlingwaves Thu 06-Dec-12 19:14:13

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BackforGood Thu 06-Dec-12 20:09:13

So what was happening in the previous school ? It would seem to me that support should have been in place over some years. Whereas this SENCo doesn't sound very on the ball, surely you should have been a lot further on through input from the SENCo at the last school ?

pleasedontjudge Thu 06-Dec-12 20:09:32

It really can be a complete toss up. But apply - if no luck, apply again etc.

And in the meantime, keep pestering for intervention.

silverfrog Thu 06-Dec-12 20:12:40

they have a helpline too, if your LA start messing around.

SOS!SEN can also be very helpful.

one thing to be wary of - Parent Partnership - they are not always as impartial as they should be, and sometimes work hand in hand with the LA while apparently advising you

IndigoBelle Thu 06-Dec-12 20:18:22

Sarah Freck used to be a regular poster who always sounded like she was a good tutor.

But sounds like your DD needs a lot more than a tutor.

Def apply for a statement yourself. But also be more proactive about working out what her problems are, and what you, school or someone else could do to help her.

Whistlingwaves Thu 06-Dec-12 20:23:50

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McChristmasPants2012 Thu 06-Dec-12 20:24:42

i was advised against having a tutor as well, but when Senco turned down funding for 1-1 I went ahead any way.

Whistlingwaves Thu 06-Dec-12 20:27:52

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Whistlingwaves Thu 06-Dec-12 20:28:56

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NannyEggn0gg Thu 06-Dec-12 21:27:02

The HT might seem to not be approachable, but frankly, you can't take any notice of that. She has a statutory duty to your daughter.
Ask for a meeting with CT, HT and Senco, take your DH or someone with you and get wheels in motion to obtain the education to which your daughter is entitled.

Whistlingwaves Thu 06-Dec-12 21:41:49

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pleasedontjudge Thu 06-Dec-12 21:49:36

No she's not stupid. I've had the same this week at work with a student. We put too much emphasis on grades. There is so much more to a successful person than the NC levels. Find her strengths, whether it be listening, being kind and supportive and a good friend, enjoying stories, sport etc and encourage her in that.

StarOfLightMcKings3 Thu 06-Dec-12 21:56:13

She's not stupid, the SENCO is stupid and has let her down.

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