Boyfriend was going to visit and stay the night with elderly grandparents tonight with his dm, df and dsis. Grandparents live 2 hour drive away so dp decided to drive in his own car as his parents left early this morning and he didn't want to spend whole day there.
In the 4 years I've been with boyfriend I've only met gp's once but last time they invited ds and I over and we loosely agreed we'd go up and incorprate it into a trip somewhere nearby.
Anyway about a couple of hours before dp was about to leave, over lunch I suggested we could all go and get a hotel as he was discussing sleeping arrangements being bad there and how he and his dsis usually end up sleeping on floor. He wasn't remotely interested in us coming and came up with a range of excuses that it's too short notice, he isn't wasting money on a hotel, ds will get bored, I won't like it the house smells of old people. He's only going out of courtesy and doesn't even want to be there and it will be too much hassle.
He reluctantly agreed to look at a travelodge and it was £30, then he started saying there must be something wrong with it as it's so cheap, then he said it was too far away, it was 2 miles away from gp's. Then he said I must think he going off with another woman and I'm testing him (I never said that at all). In the end he said oh well you better pack a bag now then as I'm leaving in 10 minutes. I said to forget it as it was clear he didn't want us there.
He got in a big strop and said we were parting on bad terms and how he'd just wanted to go and get back and now he wasn't even looking forward to coming back. Then he threw a strop on his way out of the door because he'd forgot his phone and it was my fault for making a fuss (it was in his back pocket), and now he's texting me saying he's forgot his clean jumper, it's my fault again and they're going out for a meal and he doesn't have one.
Kind of upset me even more as the fact that they're going for a meal would have made it even more realistic for us to go.
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sparklyjumper · 01/12/2012 18:20
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