Basic background - I have been friends with this person since we were 16 and we both had our DCs at the same time.
She is separated from her H and has joint custody so one week on one week off.
She is not loaded but not completely skint at the same time, her H is loaded but she has so far not pushed for any extra money (from their £800k house) and is renting a small flat.
She is always asking for help with childcare on her week with the girls, she works full time but can't use after school care as she has not paid her last bill and refuses to as she thinks her H should as his family pay the school fees.
I was always happy to help when I could however due to the joys of facebook I now know that she is using her annual leave on the weeks she doesn't have the DCs to go away on holiday with her new BF, they are cheap hols through work so I am not bothered about the money thing, but it is more the fact she is using her leave to do this then can't take time off in the school holidays or her weeks with them to look after them.
WIBU to stop offering to help out of principle or should I just offer anyway as I know the girls have a nice time with us and are not sent randomly to friends they know less and it is not my business what she does with her leave.
BTW she does not expect the help and is always appreciative!
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to not help friend out with childcare anymore?
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MrsMelons · 27/11/2012 09:16
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