Okay, so he's down on his luck. BUT.....brief history
He's never really held down a job. Left an apprenticeship before he finished and went on to become a taxi driver. However, he is lazy, so under his own steam, he just doesn't work. He got himself into lots of debt living the high life with a previous girlfriend. Borrowed over £6k from my mum
His relationship broke down. The flat wasn't in his name. so he walked away with only debt to show for it. Eventually declared bankrupt over two years ago. He has a daughter from another relationship who he sees once a week. As far as I know he pays the mum maintenance (when he has the cash) So up until yesterday he was still running his taxi. But due to so many days off he was owed the taxi office money for his car. Instead of working he asked my mum for the money! She said "no" But she is really upset about the situation.
He has now lost the car, so no job, no money, no food in the cupboards. Now, I do feel a little bit sorry for him. But he could have prevented this.
My mum phoned earlier in tears because my brother had said he would need to go to a homeless shelter unless he got cash to get his car back. Emotional blackmail? My mum is over 70 years old and really doesn't need this kind of worry. So I phoned him and told him that if anything happens to mum because of this I will never speak to him again. He should only tell her that he is sorting himself out and not to worry.
Am I being to harsh?
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To expect my brother to man up!!!!
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AlmostHadItAll · 19/11/2012 22:01
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