Maybe this belongs in Relationships but thought this would be more fun. Ok here goes.
My sister is 23. She is the most egotistical narcissistic person I have ever known. She is selfish and completely oblivious to other people's feelings or needs or anything.
Examples: turning up 7 hours late to my housewarming party (9pm for a 2pm BBQ) when she said she would be there at 6pm but then decided to go on an impromptu date with some guy she met at work. Relatives were awkwardly standing around after everyone else had left because they were hoping to see her. I was knackered after hosting the party and she made my mum go and collect her from the tube (10 min walk). She once made me wait 30 mins for her outside the tube station we had agreed to meet at because she hadn't been bothered to text to say she hadn't even got on the train yet. She is a layabout actress and my mum gives her money when she needs it even though my mum is quite poor herself. My dad has a flat in central London which he might have to sell because he is in trouble financially. She could live there and pay minimal rent thereby helping my dad and also herself to save money. But she won't do it because "she needs her own space and all our dads stuff will be there". She invited her friend on holiday to our family holiday house in Italy and just assumed that was fine. She was meant to be going with our aunt and uncle but couldn't be bothered to keep them in the loop when she fucked off to holland for an audition instead. She also invited same friend to my mum's house for christmas which i don't think is appropriate. She had a rant because my mum is moving in with her partner and he ( very lovely guy) jokingly said she wasn't allowed to store more than 3 boxes of stuff in their new house ( his house). She was outraged that she would be expected to keep all her things in her flat in London (my mum is a pushover and wouldn't argue) and was bitching about this to me sighing etc. "most people keep their things at their parents house not their London flats, I'm just renting, poor me etc".
I don't think she is malicious just does not live
in the real world and is totally self obsessed.
I am fed up of listening to her I tried to persuade her about dads flat and I have given up trying to point out other things or express my disappointment eg when she is late (every single time we eat Sunday lunch at mums she is at least 1 hr late cos she oversleeps and she just doesn't think that me and my dd who is 7 are planning to get a specific train back to London so it doesn't get too late). Everything you tell her she responds with an affected "omg! That's sooooo ...." Etc. if I criticise her she cries.
I can't be arsed with her anymore and am employing avoidance tactics. We are not going to my mums for Xmas we are staying home the 3 of us - partly cos of her. I have given up on trying to help her not be such a whiny entitled little bitch. She is an embarrassment to me. AIBU?
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To not want anything more to do with my sister?
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ChicMama25 · 14/11/2012 08:22
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