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to think it's weird that a parent hangs about my child's nursery all the time?

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Christmas78 Tue 13-Nov-12 10:49:04

I should start by saying I know I'm paranoid. I just don't know if I'm being completely paranoid this time!

Regularly when I pick up my baby there is this one father sitting around in the baby room at the nursery chatting to the girls who work there. He's a parent of one of the older babies so he's got a right to be there. I just don't get why he's there all the time! I pick my DS up at different times of the day as I work from home so it's definitely not just a one off. And why does he hang around like it's his sitting room or a coffee shop?

My issues are 1) the girls spend all their time bantering with him when I feel they should be focussing on the babies and 2) I just find it a bit weird that he's around my child so often and not a carer. I mean, I'm tempted to ask if they've blimming CRB checked him.

TiggyD Wed 14-Nov-12 16:27:12


fanjoforthemammaries7850 Wed 14-Nov-12 16:27:57

stop sticking your tongue out at my fanjo raspberry you filthy beast shock

Raspberrysorbet Wed 14-Nov-12 16:28:31

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Raspberrysorbet Wed 14-Nov-12 16:29:30

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fanjoforthemammaries7850 Wed 14-Nov-12 16:30:13

That's not the primmest thing I have ever heard winkgrin

Raspberrysorbet Wed 14-Nov-12 16:36:49

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fanjoforthemammaries7850 Wed 14-Nov-12 16:38:27

i suspect maybe the thread is beyond help

ClareMarriott Wed 14-Nov-12 18:44:03

Fanjo and Raspberry

I hope you are satisfied that you seem to have hijacked this thread and distracted people from what Christmas was posting about. I appreciate that you have your opinions but a little kindness and understanding of her situation would'nt go amiss . As has been said upthread, I would speak to the people at the nursery and just check with them who this guy is as it may be perfectly harmless.

fanjoforthemammaries7850 Wed 14-Nov-12 19:03:49

I said more than 24 hours ago that I was glad the OP had made her decision to contact nursery and it seemed resolved so you can stop the passive aggressive shit stirring now.

fanjoforthemammaries7850 Wed 14-Nov-12 19:07:54

Me to OP

"FanjoForTheMammariesTue 13-Nov-12 12:03:47

glad you have your answer then grin"

MrsCantSayAnything Wed 14-Nov-12 19:18:22

And THAT wasn't sarcastic was it?

fanjoforthemammaries7850 Wed 14-Nov-12 19:19:28

Actually it wasn't. Sorry to disappoint

fanjoforthemammaries7850 Wed 14-Nov-12 19:20:43

Dont generally grin when being sarky, prefer to hmm

Raspberrysorbet Wed 14-Nov-12 19:22:14

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ClareMarriott Thu 15-Nov-12 18:29:09

Fanjo and Raspberry

I'm sorry if either of you thought I was being passive agressive or patronising but after reading all the various threads I noticed that from 14th Nov 16.12 there were 12 threads between you too that had nothing to do with what the OP had been talking about and various posters commenting on . I just felt rather sad that you felt you could both hijack the thread in that way.

fanjoforthemammaries7850 Thu 15-Nov-12 18:34:30

The OP had not posted on the thread for 24 hours

Raspberrysorbet Thu 15-Nov-12 18:39:03

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fanjoforthemammaries7850 Thu 15-Nov-12 18:44:24

this will probably unleash another session of fanjo kicking

Raspberrysorbet Thu 15-Nov-12 18:52:30

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fanjoforthemammaries7850 Thu 15-Nov-12 18:55:28

yes, please don't stare at my fanjo winkgrin

fanjoforthemammaries7850 Thu 15-Nov-12 18:55:40

oops. my bad. The poor OP

Raspberrysorbet Thu 15-Nov-12 18:58:12

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Greensleeves Thu 15-Nov-12 19:01:59

Fanjo and Raspberry

I want to see you in my office at 9.20 sharp. I hope you are thoroughly ashamed of your behaviour.

Mrs Marriott

fanjoforthemammaries7850 Thu 15-Nov-12 19:03:51

<hangs head in shame> <flips bird when Claire is not looking>

Raspberrysorbet Thu 15-Nov-12 19:07:43

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