My husband and I were very skint after illness but wanted to give our PFB a sibling anyway.
Our 2nd DC turned out to be Dtwins!!! It was/is so hard with no family help and having to watch every penny.
We can cope but Have got a problem of simply 'having' to be more strict then I would have liked. This is Due to sheer demands of 3 young DC, no family help, tiredness, too little time and money and so much housework and chores.
I have lovely friends though all have the standard 2 DC, 2 years apart.
I know I shouldn't feel this way, but I get jealous when they can indulge their kids more eg "He won't put his own shoes on at age 5 so I still do it for him! " and moaning about how much their two squabble when I literally can only just cope with complicated 3 way allegiances/fights and constant refereeing.
I KNOW of course its not my friends fault my last few years have been such a struggle and that I haven't had lot of choices. I just feel the loss of the joy of parenting I would have normally so much more when I see what they do or listen to them.
I can't help it and try and always be nice but feel isolated and so different to everyone else.
This is prob the wrong place for this I suppose
/sigh.
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FreeTimeWahey · 11/11/2012 16:54
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