he's not a lovely bloke if he regularly does things like this.
he know's he's an arse with a drink in him, yet, he still chooses to drink, so he's choosing to be an arse, & he's getting away with it because everyone's pandering to him by going "oh, he's just drunk" etc
Eh? Your DH is sleeping and you don't feel you should wake him?
Are you over reacting a bit? He has made a few calls and you've turned the phones off - good. Now go to bed. If he knocks then deal with it then but if you are actually that worried go and wake your husband up