My dm and grandparents live in the same village about twenty min drive from where I live. Dsis and I planned on going to visit both parties today with my ds 2yrs.
Just about to leave home to catch bus over, when dm rings dsis, to say gp's are too unwell for visit today. No prob, fully understandable. Dsis goes on to say well I'll still come to yours. Dm was just about to pop out but will text when home. I mime to dsis to tell dm that myself and ds will be joining them. I then hear dm say 'Oh for gods sake really? That means im gonna have to tidy the house.'
Just to clarify, its not the tidy the house part I feel offended by (even though its totally unnecessary for her to do so! I'm not sue why she feels like she has to), its the oh for gods sake really. Obviously she didn't realise I could hear everything she was saying, but what a reaction to have at the thought of dd and dgs coming to see them, the dd and dgs that she hasn't seen or spoken to for a month and a half!
if she too busy or not up for a ( very well behaved pleasant tantrum free) two year old in the house, fair enough but aibu to feel slightly upset at her reaction??
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Aibu to feel put out by dm's unwarm welcome??
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FloatyFlo · 10/11/2012 14:43
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