My inlaws live several hundred miles away. They visit three times a year for 2-3 days at a time. This is always by arrangement with DH as he works on a 7 day rota and needs to arrange his days off.
I don't like them. They have a long history of bring crap and not bothering with my kids, that I won't bore you with, they make slightly more effort these days after I had a phone bust up with MIL and told them to buck up or fuck off ( this was after they didn't bother telling anyone DS had been born, for context).
The Christmas visit is looming. They can't come at all in December as they have a combination if doing things with MILs far more important sisters/patents, and another Caribbean cruise. DH has been lax in sorting dates, I reminded him that the last Monday in Nov is my mums 60th birthday and not to make plans without checking with me as I wasn't sure at what stage over the weekend we would be celebrating.
Anyway, I just walked in to him on the phone yelli g them he'd booked off the last weekend in Nov and to book a hotel. Given that he'd not asked me about it, I had gone ahead and made plans for the Saturday to host a little party tea at mums, we are then going out for a meal in the Monday night. Mum, dad and sister have just flown to Florida and will be back the day before the party tea, dd is already desperate to know when she will see them again and us really excited about the tea.
I have told DH that I have plans that weekend and he us going to have to rearrange, as its Gary fair for the inlaws to drive all that way and only see us on the Sunday.
He has now rearranged his weekend iff for the previous one, and has let his parents know do they can book a hotel, but he is bitching and huffing like a drama queen.
Was I unreasonable?
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WelshMaenad · 09/11/2012 20:27
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