Im asking for advice and opinions on how you would handle this situation
My son, 19, left college earlier this year and eventually signed on at the end of August when the casual work he had at his Uncles café dried up and all his job applications were unsuccessful
Since then he has been sanctioned twice (once for being 3 mins late to a group session at no fault of his own , but which I think fuelled his attitude ?of you have treated me unfairly so why should I respect you ?attitude?
They then after the sanction recommended him for ?a work placement? and he went to the company (JHP) for an initial interview and the guy there told him your here and you?ve been put on a work placement ?as a punishment?
He, rightly or wrongly walked out and said something along the lines ?being punished for being 3 mins late to a group who?s best advice on how to find a job was ?look on the internet for vacancies?
He also asked ?if? work placements were the great government scheme to help people into work why are you admitting you are putting me on this for punishment (his thinking here was if he hadn?t been 3 mins late he would not have been referred for a work placement)
. he also asked ?If I go and stick price labels on stuff at the back of a charity shop for a month do you really think I?d put that on my CV when I have skills and qualifications already , what does that say about me other than I was unemployed and put on a workscheme?
They then sanctioned his job seekers again.?.then suspended it indefinitely . Then sent him p45 form saying he was obviously not entitled to JSA as he did not want a job!!!!!!
We now have Alasdair Darling MP , and Andrew Burns leader of the Edinburgh council involved too but , but this is my point.?.?.?.?.?.?.?
I created in part his attitude towards the DWP, Job Centres and work placements so should I just suck it up and continue paying for him (food, travel, roof over his head, clothes, hobbies etc) or should should I say .?..you?re unemployed and until you get the means to support yourself your going have to suck it up and play ball with whatever they want you to do for £56 a week
I?d really appreciate some views , thanks coz I?m torn between going ?gonna my son It is shit, it wrong and I?ll support you? and ?Well you need to stand on your two feet
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KelperRose · 08/11/2012 19:15
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