I may be being petty but I'm so fed up with it.
Its DDs birthday and not a card from my sister she forgot both my DSs birthdays too, hadn't heard nothing from her till just now which was a text message saying she couldn't afford to send a card, a card is about 29p plus a stamp.
She came to me desperate for 20 quid last month which I lent and we arranged for her to pay back on last day of the month which she didn't, even though I had told her I needed it for DDs birthday, found out afterwards she needed ciggies so weren't for anything important.
I attended her DSs birthday party last month and bought him a gift and card and I feel like its all very one sided.
She works and lives with her MIL and is only skint because her DP is a pothead which funnily enough they have money for.
She has been into my town 4 times this year and not once bothered to call in and see her niece and nephews although on one occasion begged me to drive her home as she had been let down (she had her son with her so I couldn't say no) and she couldn't even be bothered to come to me and say hi first I had to collect her, she was up the next street.
AIBU to think sod it if your not going to ever make the effort then I give up?
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ruledbyheart · 06/11/2012 16:47
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