I'll try to keep this short.
I broke my foot last week, I'm in plaster. My cousin is halfway through her pregnancy. We speak every day and are close.
It was half term here last week when I broke my foot, I have 2dc's and my DM has one.
She came around Friday morning to help me with the kids (3rd full day of being in plaster and not able to walk), do some cleaning and unpack a food shop that I had ordered as well as get 2 kids ready to go out for the afternoon.
My cousin rang that morning and said she was planning on coming up with her DS to see me, I explained it was manic and my mum was flat out trying to get everything done and would she mind coming up another time as being I was laid up, I couldn't help my dm and felt it was a lot to add seeing to her niece on top of everything else and would have meant all the stuff she had come to do wouldn't have gotten done and my dm's days to help are limited at best.
I thought this was ok and have spoken to her around 6 times since Friday and was shocked to find out from our GM that she was mortally offended I didn't invite her up. I text her to apologise if I hurt her feelings or didn't explain properly but that isn't the case and she felt I shouldn't have asked her to come up another time as she would never do this. She also brought up the fact she had invited me down when her friend was at her house recently, when I offered to leave them to it as I didn't know this girl well, but she insisted I come down regardless.
Obviously there were extenuating circs Friday and I wouldn't usually ask if another time was ok but she has really hauled me over the coals for daring to ask if she would mind coming another, quieter time.
Was I completely rude??
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to think this was ok? or is my cousin right?
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DragonMamma · 06/11/2012 14:51
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