This will probably be long so near with me.
My nearly 8 year old has been driving me mad for over a year now. He argues with absolutely EVERYTHING I or my OH say. Example yesterday we went to pick him up from school. He started arguing about some homework. Was asked several times to stop arguing , told the conversation was over. He continued. We issued a punishment (not allowed to play with a certain new toy). He continued arguing, saying the punishment wasn't fair, we are horrible because we want to make him unhappy, we want his life to be unfair, etc etc. This continued all of the half hour walk home. He does this pretty much every day. He consistently does things he knows he isn't supposed to do (winding up his baby brother, running in the kitchen etc) then argues when he is told off or punished. He is ungrateful. We spent the whole half term doing fun things with him and.didnt get one.thank you, just whinges that we.didnt buy him expensive.things. He is exhausting to be around and I feel like the worst parent in the.world because he is very polite and well behaved at school, and my Mum is always saying he's an.angel, he's so good etc etc because she doesn't see him argue with us. She thinks we are too harsh on him ND whenever I tell him sharply (for about the third time that day) to stop getting in the baby's face (he wears glasses, I don't want either child hurt by them.or the.glasses broken) she will call him over for a cuddle and tell him he's a lovely boy. He's picking up on that so now feels that we are.genuinely unfair to.him.
I am at my.wits end.
Apologies for all mistakes I am typing on my phone with cold hands!
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YuffieKisaragi · 06/11/2012 12:16
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