I am in throes of trying to work out what to do about an NCT ante-natal course; we may (or may not!) be moving area and I am getting myself worked up into a ridiculous paranoia that if I join a class where we live now and then maybe (or maybe not!) move areas I will have wasted money joining the class as the only reason I really want to join is to try to meet other mums-to-be so I am not suicidal isolated when I have the baby.
Looking at MN I get the sense that it can be difficult to meet people in a similar life stage (not wild about categorising it as 'mummy friends') unless you do quite structured things like NCT etc.
The only experience I have had so far is ante-natal yoga where (and this could just be the location I did it in, a very swish bit of London near where I work) the other mums-to-be terrified me. It was like being back at school with little gangs and cliques and giggling. I think this (plus hormones, plus uncertainty about where we are going to live) is now why I am getting into a state about being very isolated after arrival of the baby.
I am pretty self-sufficient and don't want to spend every day drinking coffee with anyone (not even my current friends, let alone new ones!) but I would like to be able to meet people for a chat, either about kid stuff or about what's in the news, I'm honestly not bothered.
I'm shy with new people (though a hoot when I relax, honest!) and the thought of broaching conversation with women if they're anything like the lot in my yoga class is giving me cold sweats!
Any advice or personal experiences of the whole 'mummy network' thing?
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emeraldgirl1 · 05/11/2012 13:36
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