I've posted previously in employment issues but the situation has moved on and I think this is more of an AIBU than employment query. Having had a crap year at work since returning from maternity leave, things finally came to a head and I walked out in floods of tears and have spent the last two months signed off for work related stress and more recently, anxiety/depression.
While off, I desparately applied for jobs not thinking that I would find anything. I didn't hold out much hope in current climate but got at an interview for my dream job and have been made a verbal offer. I've just been sent the forms for referencing and once signed, they will go to my current employer.
I've also been discussing my return to work with current employer as I'm ready to face the working world again(following discussion wth GP) but have told them (without prejudice) that I don't see the point in returning given the breakdown in the working relationship and I'd like to arrange my exit. They seem on board with this and I've proposed a compromise agreement paying me my contractual 3 month notice period. Now waiting for them to come back on this and hoping they dont drag their feet.
I think that once they receive a request for references they are unlikely to agree to my proposal. Thing is, I'm not convinced given my sick leave that I will ultimately get the job - flowery has clarified that they can't withdraw offer if I'm fit to work, but I remain paranoid.
I don't want to hold off on references as new employer would like me to start asap, but if new job falls through, I will need that 3 months pay. I also think that as current employer made my life a freaking nightmare for 9 months, I am entitled to some compensation but admit I am unwilling to go down the route of a formal greivance procedure as it is likely to be very messy and upsetting.
AIBU not to come clean with current employer? Hope that's the right question!?
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...to still push for full payment in lieu of notice despite job offer?
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coocoocawhooOOOOO · 04/11/2012 15:03
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