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I may have finally lost it...

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RainingCatsansDogs Sat 03-Nov-12 06:18:40

My husband has known for a while that I wanted a baby (soon) Think he was able to procrastinate and put it off long time with the rest of my friends wanting babies later and all his friends wanting the same

RainingCatsansDogs Sat 03-Nov-12 06:20:46

clearly not getting sense but yey

Molepom Sat 03-Nov-12 06:25:39

Go back to school.

MammaTJ Sat 03-Nov-12 06:26:27

Ime, it takes at least 9 months, so YABU. wink

OHforDUCKScake Sat 03-Nov-12 06:38:38


PurplePidjin Sat 03-Nov-12 07:01:12

No. You don't.

You want some GCSEs and, if you're really good, Father Christmas might bring you a puppy.


altinkum Sat 03-Nov-12 07:06:10

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

maddening Sat 03-Nov-12 07:20:48

Have you spoken to dh?

Redsilk Sat 03-Nov-12 07:51:06

Raining, suggest you develop a preferred strategy for obtaining said child, i.e., buy, adopt, kidnap, etc, and check out the options. Another option, which has worked for many mums in the past, is to conceive. suggest you talk to dh about it. helps if you pull his pants down before you let him know how you feel.

OnlyWantsOne Sat 03-Nov-12 07:54:33

hmm do you really have to be so mean?

OP - perhaps if you tell your husband how you are feeling it could help. It's a desperate feeling isn't it - that's nature!

Walkacrossthesand Sat 03-Nov-12 07:58:02

So, you want a baby now. Husband doesn't want to start a family yet. Do you worry that 'not yet' for him is code for 'never'? How about the discussion with him being about 'when', as a compromise between 'now' and 'someday'? How old are you - 21 is very different from, say, 35.

SillyBeardyDaddyman Sat 03-Nov-12 07:59:07

Don't buy a black market baby, they're all mingers. I'd suggest going down the kidnapping route. At least then you get some choice about what the kid looks like!

Redsilk Sun 04-Nov-12 08:07:49

What's "mean" about pulling down dh's pants and going to town on him as a way to communicate what you want and that you're serious about it? suggesting maybe something less subtle?

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