to not want to talk about her chest any more?

[Notfootball]

I have a friend who talks about herself all the time. She is a good looking woman but I'm getting bored of hearing how everyone is looking at her/her chest/at how pretty she is in her fake eyelashes/about how her husband's colleague said how hot she is. There was a party on Saturday and apparently everyone's husband had designs on her.

I usually get bored when people talk about their children constantly but in this case, I'd prefer it if she did. I'm seeing her tomorrow, how do I put a stop to this self-obsessed chatter?

[StuntGirl]

She obviously has rock bottom self esteem to harp on about it so much, I don't think people are normally so conceited. Is she a good friend? Could you be quite blunt/honest about it without it hurting her feelings too much?

[KittyFane1]

She sounds boringly insecure.
Other than tease her about her vanity, there's not much you can do. Just listen and nod but never actually continue the conversation, change the subject!

[SlightlySuperiorPeasant]

Is she Sam Brick?

[bitsofmeworkjustfine]

my tip is say ' oh yes you said. did you see x last night?' or whatever
and everytime she repeats herself or returns to the topic, keep saying,

yes you told me, now what about
or didnt we speak about that already?

[EverybodysSpookyEyed]

agree with bitsofmework

smile, nod, ask question or make statement on totally unrelated topic

or introduce this

'have you read that article by that ghastly samantha brick, i mean, no matter how good looking or not, there is nothing more unattractive than someone going on and on about their looks'

smile sweetly, sip tea