A joint birthday meal for three friends. About ten or twelve of us going. Just had the email with place/time (after I'd agreed to go) and I now remember why I didn't bust a gut to go to the last one (had logistics problems). Table will be booked for 9pm.
Culturally everyone else (apart from DP and maybe one or two of the others) eats later in the evening but DP went to the last one and he said no one turned up until 10pm apart from the British people and then they got kicked out at midnight by the very annoyed staff who by that point were desperate to go home.
I get up at 5:30am every morning for work and am in bed by 9pm so I can get up in the morning. I eat (and get hungry) at 5:30pm. This is my weekend off but I still have to roughly stick to the timings as it takes ages for my body to 'break in'. I really didn't think they would set the meal so late and I know they will turn up late - it's always at least 30mins after a meeting time.
The table hasn't been booked yet. WIBU to ask to move it earlier to 8pm (therefore realistically eating at 9pm)? Otherwise I'm going to have to go for dessert only, which is rude but I just can't eat that late. I probably won't even be awake enough to eat! [hgrin] I do understand that it's not my birthday meal, which is why I think I may be being U. OTOH I always try and consider everyone when I make group events and would try and find a compromise if someone felt the way I do about this.
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CharminglyOdd · 30/10/2012 09:43
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