Hi
Just to put my mind at rest, does anybody else think I am an utterly awful parent (like I feel at the minute) because my twin daughters are so incredibly mardy despite myself demonstrating patience the length of the M25?
Long story short one of my six year old twins shouts in my face, screams at me and point blank tells me "No" when I tell her she has to go to bed for being rude/ go in time out to calm herself down. Physically I struggle to lift her and put her in bed as she is quite a heavy child for her age. I do not like smacking my children, I try not to shout, but I think she knows this and this is why she plays up...... The other twin has begun stamping, shouting and arguing back also, therefore I have banned from treats for a week after she punched and kicked the doors during a fit the other day, so she will miss Halloween, Am I being unreasonable?
Should I just man up? Otherwise my kids are lovely at school, in fact their teacher cannot believe I am describing the same children. Their Dad works long, long hours and I do get tired, yet I have a 17 year old who is good as gold and never gives me any bother. Even one twin behaves a lot better than the other so I see it more as a personality thing.... I am proud of them for having an edge I never stood up for myself but I'm tired of being a much nicer and better parent than my emotionally detached rubbish ones and getting no end of grief for it!
Sorry its so long, hope your not bored to sleep.
I don't mind if replies are honest, I'm asking for them :) I am a teaching assistant, I know kids are challenging, but I try so hard to be a good parent and the behaviour thing is wearing me down, I just want to enjoy being with them at the weekends and holidays, I just want them to enjoy it too, but it seems the more I do the worse they are (not money wise, with quality time I mean).
help please...............
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rodgette · 27/10/2012 07:31
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