Me and MIL have never been close and we have very different views on acceptable behaviour. However since I had my DS 4 months ago she seems to be crossing the line a lot. Recently me DH and DS went to MILS, she has 2 fully grown german shepherds that I don't want around DS firstly because they are far too big and secondly they have shown aggression in the past, when I told her that I don't want the dogs around him she questioned me repeatedly on this and tried to cause an argument which pissed me off however I stood my ground and the dogs didn't go near him. Later in the evening her ex showed up and she ended up punching him several times and the police were called because me and DH were present we had to give statements including full name and address they also took DS name which I wasn't happy about
A few days later my HV informed me that social services had contacted her to see how me and DH were with our parenting as DS had been present ina domestic violence situation. When I told MIL that this had happened she didn't even apologise!!! I don't trust her what so ever and don't want her around DS at all but I'm willing for her to see him when me or DH are present but not at her home. AIBU??
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hoobledoo · 26/10/2012 13:49
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