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to think if you go out for a meal for your DCs birthday then you shouldn't spend all evening sniggering at text messages?

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sausagesandwich34 Tue 23-Oct-12 21:37:53

DD's birthday, wanted her dad to come out for her birthday meal, I can be civil for a couple of hours, it was her birthday, so he was invited

he spent all evening texting various women he is chatting to online, then telling us all about the women he is chatting to online and sniggering to himself (DCs are 8&11 so really don't need to know about daddy's lady friends!)

barely spoke to the DCs after the initial happy birthday

so because that wound me up, everything started anoying me
the fact that he hadn't brought any money as he had been invited so didn't expect to pay, the fact that he made no effort with his appearance etc etc


the things we do for our DCs!

NewFaceNeeded Tue 23-Oct-12 21:41:59

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

AnnaLiza Tue 23-Oct-12 21:43:32

Can't believe he's been honest about this! No, YANBU!

blackeyedsusan Tue 23-Oct-12 21:44:13

poor dd.

did you ask hiim to put the phone away as it is not polite. this may be more for dd's benefit than her dads though.

SoleSource Tue 23-Oct-12 21:49:30

He is one immature fucking c!

scentednappyhag Tue 23-Oct-12 21:51:36

He sounds like a right catch OP, why ever did you let him go? grin
Sorry he was a shit on a special meal, hope DD had a good birthday anyway.

sausagesandwich34 Tue 23-Oct-12 21:52:12

didn't say anything -would have triggered one massive sulk and I wasn't going to risk it

there is a reason why he is the ex!

HappyHalloweenMotherFucker Tue 23-Oct-12 21:52:17

did you see any actual evidence of these highly hilarious "texts" ?

I would be inclined to believe they were a figment of his imagination, tbh

AlmostAHipster Tue 23-Oct-12 21:54:24

How sad for your daughters. What a total arsewipe!

helpyourself Tue 23-Oct-12 21:55:12

You're a saint. thanks

sausagesandwich34 Tue 23-Oct-12 21:57:31

his phone kept vibrating so he was definitely getting messages but I really couldn't care what they said

he does meet lots of women via dating sites but none seem to last -can't think why lol

maras2 Tue 23-Oct-12 21:58:00

What an absolute pig.Well done you for not kicking off.

MamaBear17 Tue 23-Oct-12 21:58:07

Your poor dd. I think that you being civil for the sake of your kids is brilliant. xx

HappyHalloweenMotherFucker Tue 23-Oct-12 22:00:56

btw, don't ever pay his share again !

cadging fucker

SoleSource Tue 23-Oct-12 22:02:46

Texting strangers is more imporyant tban his Daughters special day. Also flirting like a teenager on his phone, giggling.

I would have EXPLODED with anger after that out if sight and earshot of the children.

What were your childrens reactions?

SoleSource Tue 23-Oct-12 22:04:13

He came with no money to pay and no effort in his appearence. I am fuming here.


SoleSource Tue 23-Oct-12 22:05:03

I would never have him near me again.

fuckadoodlepoopoo Tue 23-Oct-12 22:06:51

What an arsehole! Your poor daughter sad

TheDetective Tue 23-Oct-12 22:08:21

What a total cockwiping cunt.

I'd of humiliated him in some way. I'd of found a way... the bastard.

And not bringing money! shock double cockwiping cunt.

sausagesandwich34 Tue 23-Oct-12 22:11:53

the children are used to him unfortunately

HappyHalloweenMotherFucker Tue 23-Oct-12 22:13:22

poor kids sad

WilsonFrickett Tue 23-Oct-12 23:07:00

Well, look on the bright side OP, you got a present too today. Every day that cock isn't in your life, that's a gift, right there.

What a knobber.

HappyHalloweenMotherFucker Tue 23-Oct-12 23:14:17


MrsTerryPratchett Tue 23-Oct-12 23:31:52

Every time I run into my ExH I am reminded that he is someone else's problem now. Hallelujah. I stick needles in my eyes sooner than buy him dinner though. You are a saint.

FizzyLaces Tue 23-Oct-12 23:34:48

grin Wilson

Save your money next time OP, you and the children will have a much better time without him!

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