seriously, flame me, call me a cold hearted cow, say I'm no sister, cos i need to know what the fuck to do....... so, she moved in with her ape of a boyfriend about 5 months ago, and a little 3 yr old girl, and baby 2 weeks from delivery.
At first, we thought they were ace, a light in the pensioner tunnel that is our area.
Then after drinking with them (him) a few times, realized he's a sexist, racist pig. So! broke all contact just about, until recently, she came to the door, really upset, saying she's so sorry she hasn't been round, and can we be friends, I never really had a problem with her, except to say she never stood up for herself, AND told me once she thought i fancied her boyfriend, and should stay away??!!
So she's been round CONSTANTLY and saying he's punched all the walls through, has given her a black eye, has really turned on the little girl (not his) this little girl, is an amazing kid, and she spent LOADS of time here in the summer, playing with my little boy, her Dad was an abuser and she was taken from her mum for 6 weeks til she left him.
right, so sad tale, but these past weeks, I've done EVERYTHING for them, she doesn't drive, so I've been running errands etc, and she keeps turning up at night saying he's kicking off, all of which is upsetting my OH by now, and the kids are getting increasingly scared. It's really affecting my family life now, and she WON'T tell him to go?! I know it's not that easy, and I'm really trying to be sympathetic, but her 3 year old is wetting the bed again,and developing all sorts of anxiety related behaviours, if she won't put the kids first, and save herself and them from him, why should i keep pissing my oh off, and upsetting my family for her?
right go one then! I'm ready........
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