I have just rang my mum, I haven't spoken to her since my birthday, tried to ring her on her's but got no answer, was also in the highlands so reception wasn't great and couldn't try again later in the day.
Basically I rang her tonight and she denies me ringing her as she was sat in all day, and then said she was gutted because she "always makes the effort for us lot so thanks a fucking bunch", and then put the phone down.
The thing is this year is the first year since I was 21 (30 now), that she has actually sent me a card, I have never recieved a Christmas card since I left home, and she has never sent my kids a birthday card either eldest being 10, she hasn't been down to visit me since ds2 was born (now 4), the only time she has seen my kids in the last 4 years is when I've spent £40 on train ticket to go and visit her.
She was referring to us lot as being me and my brother's, one of whom turned 21 this year and didn't even receive a phone call on his birthday from her, I'm so angry with her, I've been trying to build a relationship with her for years and years and I keep getting throwbacks like this constantly, she hated me as a teen I was an inconvenience as a child and she palmed me off constantly to my nan and her friends until I was 6.
Now that I'm a fully fledged adult, I have no idea what she wants form me, apart from a phone call on her birthday.
I was hoping to surprise her with a visit as soon as I passed my driving test in November. Guess that's not going to happen now. I'm so angry and upset.
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GossipWitch · 17/10/2012 22:04
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