Aibu to be cross or am I just hormonal

[advance01]

So I have just had dd. Have 2 older children. Discused with dp about getting new dd to buy older dc a small gift to help prevent jealousy etc. ie £10.00 ish
So whilst I was still in hospital dh went to Lego Shop and spent over £100 on 2 dc and a similar amount on himself.
New dd apparrently brought gifts for daddy and other dc according to my older dd.
So I asked what had she got mummy. (Petty probably) Apparently didn't know what to get.
AIBU to think that dh of 14 years should be able to choose a small gift for me and WIBU to go out and spent £100 on myself. (once I can drive)

[FunnysInLaJardin]

YWNBU to go and spend £100 on yourself, plus then you will get just what you want.

[monkeysbignuts]

£100!! oh crumbs lol, that is a little excessive and yes he should have bought you something!

I have just spent about £50 on my two little ones because I am due any day now (39+4) it aways helps to soften the blow for the kiddies :)

[eurowitch]

Hell no! Start planning what to spend the £100 on now!

[Sparklingbrook]

Did your DP buy himself Lego?

[advance01]

Yes he did. sparklingbrook. I live in a house full of Lego nuts!

[Sparklingbrook]

Which Lego set do you fancy advance?

[VinegarTits]

shes very generous your new dd, do you think she would buy me an ipad?

yanbu

[LFCisTarkaDahl]

What d'you mean once you can drive?

Internet shopping my dear

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[monkeysbignuts]

I would fancy a nice new pandora bracelet or a necklace if it was me :)
p.s valuable lesson, never leave it to a man haha.

[LittleprincessinGOLDrocks]

YANBU
When DS was born DD chose a toy for him to welcome him, and DS "brought" a gift for DD. It was not an expensive gift at all for either of them.
And both times I had babies daddy bought Mummy a treat - eternity rings. (yes I have 2, but very different one trillogy ring one classic eternity band).

Get online and get a gift delivered. Jewlery with your DC birthstone on perhaps? Or the pandora bracelet as pp suggested?

[EricNorthmansFangBanger]

LFCis - I clicked on that last link I blame it on pregnancy brain!!

[EricNorthmansFangBanger]

Sorry I posted before I was ready!

OP - YANBU! Enjoy spending :D

[valiumredhead]

I think some men go a bit bonkers after the birth of their kids, dh trotted off to Hamleys and spent a huge amount of money on a Steiff teddy. He would NEVER spend that much normally, in fact he'd laugh at anyone who did!