I have a big big surprise for my partner and I am really really excited about it. The thing I have planned was confirmed this morning in the post and I wanted to tell him in a special way. I text him to say we should go out tonight for dinner and he knew there was a 'reason' as it's very unusual for me to say this - esp on a weekday. He called demanding to know what the surprise was and listing all the things it could be, then started getting really moody when I wouldnt tell him. He argued that he hated surprises, said he was too tired for dinner etc. I don't know what he is so scared of - it's not like I am going to tell him I am pregnant as I already am. He reacted so badly I really am quite upset - especially as this surprise is really really heart felt and special. AIBU? If a man called me and said he had a surprise and we were going for dinner I would be ecstatic. He usually is a lovely, kind, generous, doting partner so I don't understand this reaction. I have cancelled dinner.
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