I have been with my partner for 3 years, we have 2 DD's together, and i love our little family and we are really happy together. But recently my partners ex has asked us if we will have my partners teenage son (who we rarely see) live with us, as she cannot cope with him anymore, as he getting into fights, and is out of control.
I have always known that my partner would love to have his son live with him, and i wish i could say yes. But the thought fills me with anxiety and pannic!
I'm scared that if i say no, my DP will resent me, but if i say yes it will be me taking care of him, as I am a stay at home mum and my DP isn't the disaplining type.
Already having two small babies, I already struggle to get a break, I rarely get chance to eat, or even use the loo. I really don't think I could phisically and mentally cope with this!
I'm scared that we will have no choice but to have DP's son live with us, and it will tear my family apart. Im only 25! I really don't know if I can cope with an out of control teenager aroung my two little girls! Or am i just being unreasonable and selfish? As my partner says he can't just watch his son turn into a trainreck! I really don't know what to do for the best!
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aliceham · 09/10/2012 21:01
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