To think he is a scumbag

[Shockedandhurt]

My partner has left me at 30 weeks pregnant as i nag too much. This is because i have asked him not to continue to stay out all night. AIBU to not be able to get my head round him being so irresponsible and cruel?

[NervousAt20]

YANBU he sounds like a jerk and your well rid, I'm sure there will be lots of other wise women along with better advice but I hope your okay and have RL support

[Shockedandhurt]

Thanks. I have very good RL support but i just feel so bewildered and hurt by it all.

[SlightlySuperiorPeasant]

YANBU. I'm sure you are very shocked and upset but in the long-run it sounds like you're better off without him.

[WorraLiberty]

YANBU

Was he like this before you got pregnant?

[cheekybarsteward]

If he thinks it is pressure when you make a request on him he would have no chance of coping with the pressure of life when the baby is here.
Your life will be better without having to put up with him messing you about.
Enjoy your freedom until baby comes along and you will be far less stressed and able to cope.
Congratulations btw

[monkeysbignuts]

yanbu he needs to grow up and take responsibility, us women don't have the luxury or choice!

[Shockedandhurt]

He always goes on about how much i moan eg lights off when not in room, do something about the house etc. I think they are pretty standard things really!
I got pregnant by accident he begged me to keep it which i did (and im glad of now). He hasnt been interested in the basics of preparing for the baby that has all been left to me. He has been worse since i got pregnant.

[zippey]

Its better to be with a partner who supports you, but if its a choice between someone who messes you about and going it alone, it is so much less hassle to go it alone. I hope you have a good support network around you, and good luck!