Now, I want to emphasis that in all likelihood I will not do this for various reasons as well as the main one stipulated in the post, but I was just wondering what people thought about it. I have always had the attitude that your family is a long term thing and you shouldn't plan it around anyone else, but my sister is getting married next year, smack bang in the middle of where I would ideally plan to have our next baby, and I think I have decided that I can't be pregnant on the run up or during her wedding and that having a small baby would also be unfair. We already have 3dc and a 4th is still highly hypothetical - I almost feel that waiting until after my sister's wedding would rule it out as my other 3 have small gaps between them (3 under 3, currently a much less scary sounding 3 under 5) and this would mean a gap of at least 3 years and the baby being a bit tagged on the end - not the family dynamic we had planned. As I said, all very hypothetical anyway and by no means would be definitely be having a 4th anyway, but it has put a bit of a spanner in the works of the decision making process! Just interested to hear other people's thoughts and what they would do.
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3monkeys3 · 04/10/2012 09:52
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