both dp and I work full time. I'm a teacher so I have work to do every evening and on sundays. Dp does bugger all unless I nag and nag and nag, then he bashes around and grumbles and complains (like now: 11.30 and he's just started doing the kitchen, moaning and swearing etc). We have two under threes and I get them ready, their bags ready, do the cooking, washing, cleaning... At weekends he watches sport while I do housework. I muss my kids terribly when I'm working and want to spend more time with them at weekends. Think I'm heading for a breakdown actually. So: an ultimatum, change or we're over? And does anyone have any idea of how to actually do this?! Ie making lists/plans etc. Help!
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I'm at my wits end. AIBU to want to give an ultimatum?
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BlackholesAndRevelations · 03/10/2012 23:37
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