One of my very good friends has a very annoying habit of giving you the edited version of events of her life. Now we have been close for 15 years, she introduced me to my husband, we lived together, we travelled together. We have history.
BUT...she is very very careful about how she is perceived, and to that end she even tells me a load of shit. Let me give you an example.
At their wedding they did not have enough cash to pay for band. They were £150 short of a £700 bill. The groom was smashed and told me, and I offered to give him some £, but it was not enough to make up the shortfall. No big deal. Anyway...I get a text a week later asking me if I can drop the £ into the band guy as "he would not take it on the night". Now I KNOW it was because they were disorganised and short, and it s this kind of fabrication that annoys me, why lie? What does it matter, especially as we are close.
She does it all the time, full of silly bits of BS and I can't help but feel that I am forever getting this edited PR version of her life. I know this must mean she is very insecure, but at the same time, I want it to stop!
AIBU to start calling her on it?
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To be fed up with the fibs?
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nilbyname · 03/10/2012 21:06
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