Background - DH and I are generally very relaxed about the other one going out. Neither of us do that often - but I never get het up about the fact that he might be rather useless the next day if it's been a big night.
BUT...in two weeks time we have DD's birthday party (a horseriding trip for a couple of her friends and taking them out to Pizza Express afterwards) that I am doing on my own on the Friday after school as he will be in work. I will get back about 8.30 by the time I have left them all home.
DH now reveals he plans going out that night for what sounds like quite a big boys get together after I get in and when I reminded him it was our DS's birthday party at 10am (yes, not great planning having the two parties back to back) he laughed ruefully and said "ahhh I will have to struggle through it".
I am raging. I really think that (a) a birthday party in our home for 15 kids is a huge amount of work and I could do with a hand the night before and someone not hungover helping me that morning and (b) your kids birthday party is not to be "got through" - well maybe just a bit [hmmm] but not having had 6 hours sleep and 8 pints.
So apparently when expressing the thought that he might go out - but take it relatively easy and get home at a decent hour - I am being unreasonable and "fine he won't go". I have a fair idea that the defensive reaction is because he knows bloody rightly that IANBU.
But maybe I am?
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Turniphead1 · 03/10/2012 20:53
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