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To ask why somepeople use the word mom on here?

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Bubblemoon · 03/10/2012 15:05

Mom?

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meditrina · 03/10/2012 15:06

Because some people use the word in RL?

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MammaTJisWearingGold · 03/10/2012 15:06

If they are American, that would be standard.

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freerangechickens · 03/10/2012 15:06

Some of us aren't Brits.

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FoxtrotFoxtrotSierra · 03/10/2012 15:07

It's quite widely used in the Midlands.

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squoosh · 03/10/2012 15:07

I think people from the West Midlands say Mom.

I know that people from Co. Kerry say Mom.

It's not just an Americanism.

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AuntPepita · 03/10/2012 15:08

Because in the black country you have a Mom, not a Mum.

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HelgatheHairy · 03/10/2012 15:09

Squoosh - never realised that Co Kerry people use mom but thinking bout it I do call her mom (or mam)

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musicmadness · 03/10/2012 15:10

"Because in the black country you have a Mom, not a Mum."

^^This. I'm from the Midlands and pretty much always use Mom.

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Bubblemoon · 03/10/2012 15:10

I never knew most of that. Thanks.

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Tee2072 · 03/10/2012 15:10

Because HEY! GUESS WHAT? We aren't all from the UK. Some of us in the UK say Mom. And...some of us use Mum and Mom interchangeably.

HTH!

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Proudnscary · 03/10/2012 15:10

My dh says 'mom' - he's a Yorkshireman. I've never thought about it before actually - is this usual for Yorkshire folk?

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FireOverBabylon · 03/10/2012 15:12

I've seen posters on here from Germany, Australia, the Caribean, the US and Canada. Not everyone posts from the UK mainland so have different words. Similarly, I've also seen regional variations such as mam used.

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eagerbeagle · 03/10/2012 15:12

Another vote for mom here. Didn't know it wasn't universal until I read it on here.

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HappyJoyful · 03/10/2012 15:12

yep another vote for West Midlands.. my Mum is from there and must say, despite us never ever using the word to call her she will often sign a card Mommy.. I have always it must just be something from her childhood / what she called her Mom

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Doyouthinktheysaurus · 03/10/2012 15:14

My mum is a Brummy and always says mom! It's only as an adult reading MN that I realised it was a West Midlands thing.

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Scholes34 · 03/10/2012 15:19

My Mum's from Yorkshire and calls herself Mom. I call her Mum, my Nan called herself Mam.

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BitOutOfPractice · 03/10/2012 15:21

I am from the Black Country. I am a mom. My mother is my mom. My kids call me mom. Even though we live in Essex

Everyone's not the same eh? Who'd a thunk it? Wink

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rabbitonthemoon · 03/10/2012 15:22

I'm from the midlands. My mom is my mom - it would be odd to call her mum. But I use mum when talking to other people usually because they always pick me up on it/look bemused. When I was teaching a fellow teacher made the children spell it mum, even in mothers day cards. Rotten cow Sad

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YUNoSaySomethingNice · 03/10/2012 15:24

I have a Ma not a Mum or a Mom.

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brianbennettfan · 03/10/2012 15:26

Definitely a West Midlands thing.

You can take the girl out of Bilston, but you can't take Bilston out of the girl (and I have lived in Southampton since 1972 Smile.)

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mommybunny · 03/10/2012 15:27

OP, sounds like you might object?

[I'm American living in the UK - I tell my DCs I am "Mommy" not "Mummy" though I would never refuse a birthday or Mother's Day card with "Mummy" written on it. I had no idea "mom" was common in the Midlands though.]

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SoleSource · 03/10/2012 15:33

Mom here in West Mids.

Why some say Ma or Mam?

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Happyasapiginshite · 03/10/2012 15:41

I have a Mam and I am a Mom. From Dublin. Mum hurts my teeth when said in an Irish accent.

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Bubblemoon · 03/10/2012 15:47

mommybunny - no objection here. It's something you never hear used in the mild, mild West of England, so I was fascinated to see it used so widely by posters here.

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squoosh · 03/10/2012 15:47

I say Mum in an Irish accent. Inverted snobbery.

Live and let live.

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