that my dad still insists he is dealing with a teenager and not a very grown up mother of four children?!?
I don't think he can help himself! I'm going to visit him next week and he's already started, I am now regretting it but will try to bite my tongue as it's a short holiday and he's not too well. I mention buying a roof rack as I'd forgotten how much space we'd need. He INSISTS that I don't need one (keeps pushing his own illogical and unreasonable opinions onto me) and if I sigh and explain that NO I definitely do, he gives me the guilt treatment, it is so frustrating!
I mention a meet up I'll be having with old friends, he asks me why friend Y is not coming and how it would be a great idea to have everyone together and why don't i invite her. I explain i will see her at a separate place, not my place to invite others, the meet up is in friend's house. He still goes on to say 'Yes but I think it would be better then you only have one outing to worry about too and can see everyone at once'
I mentioned that I need to buy a portable air-conditioning unit when I arrive and that a friend is kind enough to pick us up in bigger car to pick it up. Apparently I do not need it, they don't even work and not to worry he can take me out!!!!!
If i ask him something, like when I needed an important document, he said you'll have to call X place in London before we can do anything. I said okay, I'll make sure that's in place first. He then tells me word for word what I need to say when I make the call I thought this would pass with my having kids and being independent but obviously not.
Is this just a dad needing a friendly 'Please dad stop doing this' or AIBU to want to scream and tell him to 'butt out'. If i do, he will sulk and not ask me anything -- my parents are hard work :(
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boiledprat · 03/10/2012 11:37
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