I have recently started helping out with an after-school club - I teach dancing to 5 and 6 year olds. This is the 3rd week now.
10 children have signed up and all except one seem to be enjoying it. There is one 5 year old girl who came in on the first week for only about 5 minutes, then was in and out of the room, back and forth to her mum, getting drinks and snacks and bringing them back into the room. Basically she didn't really do anything the others did. I told her not to eat in the class - it's only 40 minutes and they have time for a snack before.
The second week she joined in for even less time and her mum "couldn't" make her come back. I spoke to the mum and said it's fine if she doesn't want to do the class, but she can't be in and out all the time as it disturbs the others.
I didn't think she would come back but she did. This week, she didn't even come in with the others. Then 5 minutes into the class, she and her little sister started opening the door, looking in then running away laughing. I told them to stop but they kept on doing it until I locked the door. I thought they must have left but after the class they were still outside the room. At the end of the class I give all the children a sticker - they think it's for "good dancing" but they all get to choose one. The girl was suddenly at my side saying "I want a sticker". I said sorry, you only get a sticker if you dance. She seemed to accept this but her mum appeared behind her and started having a go at me, saying it was unfair and she's only little, and some other things I can't remember. I repeated that her daughter had not joined in and added that they need to decide if she's doing it or not.
The mum was obviously angry when she left. Should I have just given the child a sticker?
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scorpionne · 03/10/2012 11:05
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