im a sahm, dp works full time.
mon-fri we are both up between 6 and 6.30 as dd2 wakes up early and dp is going to work.
so we agreed that on weekends and holidays we would split the lie-ins.
on dps lie-in, i take the dds down in our pjs so dp stays asleep, i feed them and keep them downstairs till dp wakes usually 9am, then i take them upstairs and dress them and me while dp gets a peaceful breakfast, then i play with the dds while dp gets dressed.
on my lie-in, he plonks dd2 in bed with me while he gets dressed so im fully awake as she is 22 months, he then feeds dds downstairs, when i get up he goes upstairs and messes about/tidies up a bit so im left with both dds while trying to eat, then as he is already dressed he stays downstairs alone while i take dds up to get us all dressed.
im probably being petty as i get a lie in but i hate that he wakes me instaed of taking dd2 down and i feed and dress the dds all week so wish he could at least dress one of them once at the weekend.
just feel like once im up i always have 2 dds with me and he goes about his day without worrying. if hes going to the doctors/dentist be books it after work and goes alone. if i have to go i take 2 dds with me. etc.
im whinging i know.
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to think our lie-ins are inequal?
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familyfun · 02/10/2012 14:55
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