Sorry, am being impatient, posted in behaviour butgot no replies so trying here as seriously stressing about this
My baby hates everything except being held, and held in a particular forward facing sitting up position at that. Whilst we walk round. We can't sit. We can't stand still.
DD is 17 weeks and lovely and lively and engaged. In a rough 'easy' routine but the activity is full on parental play. we get 30 mins of feed, 40 mins sleep and in between we have 2 hours of singing, playing, pulling faces and walking, walking walking. It's mentally (& physically) exhausting. She is ebf if that matters.
She hates her pram, pushchair, car seat and sling. She can just aboutstand the baby bjorn for short periods.
My problem: my mum has been flooded, lost everything and made homeless. She is a widow and i am an only child. I have to help her. To do this I have a 4 hour car journey to get to my mum and my baby will scream the whole time until she is asleep. I have to stop every 10 mins to cuddle and calm or try to feed to sleep. We dida 40 min trip today and after 2 stops i ended up holding her out of the car seat for the last 10 mins. Which is horribly dangerous and stupid but she was screaching her little lungs out.
When i am at my mums (or at least my aunt's where she is currently staying) i need to be able to help my mum, not just baby watch. Obviously cuddles from the first grandchild will really help cheer her up but a bit of practical help from me is needed.
I've heard all the 'enjoy the cuddles' stuff but a) she isn't cuddling, she's expecting transportation! B) i have to be able to do stuff.
What can i do?
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Tryingtobenice · 30/09/2012 18:34
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