Have N/C for this thread and will try not to drip feed...
My parents split & divorced 11 years ago when I was 19 and I haven't seen or spoken to my F at all in that time. A few months ago, DM mentioned that when we moved out, she'd forgotten about a box of things that were in the attic which she'd brought with her when she'd first moved down to live with my F many, many years ago, and she would like to have it back (sentimental reasons).
I asked my cousin who I know is in contact with my F if he could ask my F if he could give my cousin the box so DM could have it back. Message came back that if we wanted the box, then we'd have to come around and get it ourselves.
He knows that neither of us will. DM wants nothing to do with him. I want nothing to do with him as shortly after the split when I had to continue living with F, I accidentally logged onto my F's internet account one day and found out he had some "questionable" and possibly borderline illegal interests. He also recently managed to gain information when DD was born which he only could have got by having a contact in the hospital who was prepared to commit gross misconduct (but don't have a name, so I haven't been able to make a complaint). I do not want to have any contact with him and no way that I want him to have anything to do with my DD (wouldn't put it past him to not blackmail me into bringing DD if I caved).
Is he BU in refusing to return my DM's property to her via a third party family member even though it's taken her over a decade to remember about it?
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SickOfThePast · 29/09/2012 23:23
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