I was going to give this the title "not to want to see my neighbour's new baby". But I know that that would be unreasonable-I want to congratulate her and share their joy. But when I heard the news I had the most extreme reaction- burst into tears. The last time this happened we decided to have dc3- not an option this time. But what do I do about the powerful and intense reaction I get when I hear about some (not all-can't explain why) new babies. It seems to stir up feelings of inadequacy and regret about how I've been with my three and I have to talk to myself very severely to convince myself that I am okay as a mother. Will I stop feeling this way as dc get older? I know we don't want another child- so I guess it's broodiness in its truest sense. Sorry- rambling now. Just want ways to get over myself and this. I have the most amazing family that we never thought we'd be able to. Need to count blessings in a way that will convince my biology!
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Not to know what to do with my intense reaction to neighbour's new baby.
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Molehillmountain · 29/09/2012 12:48
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