Will try and keep this short and simple. Had a male best friend from the age of 16 - 22. Nothing sexual ever happened between us, although with hindsight there was a bit of an undercurrent. We had brilliant, brilliant times together and whilst he could be quite possessive and moody, he could also make me laugh like no one else has since. When we were together we didn't need anyone else, and so probably were quite irritating to be around, being in the little bubble of "us" that we were.
Anyway, things went a bit wrong when I met a new boyfriend, who is now my DH. Friend immediately took a disliking to him and over the course of about a year was rude to him on several occasions. It all came to a head in a big row and friend and I haven't really spoken since.
Fast forward about a decade and I am now a married mum to a young baby. Perhaps I have too much time on my hands because recently I have found myself thinking a lot about friend and the times we had together, and missing him terribly. WIBU to get back in touch, even though I know DH would be pretty upset? Has anyone else been in this sort of situation and what was the outcome?
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waitandsee · 26/09/2012 09:23
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