I have seen a few examples of this over the years, kids at clubs who clearly do not want to be there, are too young/tired or whatever but the one that really made me think happened today at my ds's swimming club. It was the first day today for the new groups and there were some new children starting the pre school class so about 3/4 years old.
Waiting for the lesson to start one little girl was hysterical and clinging to her mum, screaming over and over "please mummy, i don't want to" So when the swimming teacher called her name her mum put her down and tried to make her go and she started thrashing around then slipped on the wet floor and fell down quite hard but the swimming teacher just took her and told her mum to go.
This little girl spent the whole 30 minutes crying and shivering in the pool, she had stopped screaming but was just doing silent sobs, I felt so sorry for her.
AIBU to think if she was my child I would have just took her home, she's only little and I was thinking that rather than her learning to swim this could just make her more afraid of the water or would you go with the just chuck em in and they'll get used to it approach. Maybe I'm over sensitive
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
Making children do activities when they clearly do not want to.
37 replies
mrsscoob · 25/09/2012 21:50
OP posts:
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.