I am feeling quite angry to ready to brave AIBU.
I home educate ds atm. Its not a long term solution but he has various disabilities including Autism and Dyspraxia. Hopefully later this year we will be able to find a suitable placement but for now he is being educated by me in a very informal way at home.
Small background. He has always struggled at school because of his conditions and at his first school he was managed very badly by staff with no understanding of his conditions. It was hell on earth for him really . We persevered and persevered and moved school at the final school he was assaulted by one of his teachers and for two weeks in a row, each day he came home with bruises and abrasions all over his body and face from being restrained. Quite simply school had bottomed out, he was totally unable to cope with it he was being harmed and Self Harming (biting, scratching, punching himself) almost daily. Finally we removed him, it was a massive decision and not one we took lightly, we perserved in what was for him a hellish environment for three years.
Every morning as I return from dropping my other child at school my neighbour asks why ds isn't in school. I tell him. Quite often I can brush him off though on occasion I have stopped to fully explain why ds is not in school and about his conditions. This morning my neighbour again stopped me and actually started shouting at me in my own garden that "that boy needs to be in school, you are making him stupid, I will be speaking to someone about this, enough is enough!" I again tried to explain and ended up telling him about ds being harmed at school, his response? "well he was obviously being badly behaved wasn't he?" I am afraid I lost it and told him "you are obviously too stupid to understand what I KEEP trying to tell you so just mind you own BUSINESS" and walked off he carried on shouting after me and I just kept telling him (heatedly ) to mind his own business. All this in front of ds who now has the red cheeks (big sign of impending meltdown) and is totally stressed out by it all.
Anyway feel utterly rubbish now but its just another incident of ignorance I suppose, its not like I am not used to it. Just feel like a bit of a fishwife .
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akaemmafrost · 25/09/2012 09:52
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